The Story of a Blind Girl

There was a blind girl who hated herself just because she was blind. She hated everyone, except her loving boyfriend. He was always there for her. She said that if she could only see the world, she would marry her boyfriend.

One day, someone donated a pair of eyes to her and then she could see everything, including her boyfriend. Her boyfriend asked her, “now that you can see the world, will you marry me?”

The girl was shocked when she saw that her boyfriend was blind too, and refused to marry him. Her boyfriend walked away in tears, and later wrote a letter to her saying:

“Just take care of my eyes dear.”

This is how human brain changes when the status changed. Only few remember what life was before, and who’s always been there even in the most painful situations.

Life Is A Gift

Today before you think of saying an unkind word–
think of someone who can’t speak.

Before you complain about the taste of your food–
think of someone who has nothing to eat.

Before you complain about your husband or wife–
think of someone who is crying out to God for a companion.

Today before you complain about life–
think of someone who went too early to heaven.

Before you complain about your children–
think of someone who desires children but they’re barren.

Before you argue about your dirty house, someone didn’t clean or sweep–
think of the people who are living in the streets.

Before whining about the distance you drive–
think of someone who walks the same distance with their feet.

And when you are tired and complain about your job–
think of the unemployed, the disabled and those who wished they had your job.

But before you think of pointing the finger or condemning another–
remember that not one of us are without sin and we all answer to one maker.

And when depressing thoughts seem to get you down–
put a smile on your face and thank God you’re alive and still around.

Life is a gift – Live it, Enjoy it, Celebrate it, and Fulfill it.

Author: ~unknown~
Love, Blessings & Peace ♥

Don't Judge A Person By Their Looks

Clothes are everywhere.
You may not be interested - or they may be the most important thing in your life - whether you're a fashion-concious kind of person, or a I-Really-Don't-Give-The-Foggiest-About-Clothes kind of person, everyone wears clothes. Otherwise we'd be going around a little like this..

That's an image from the story; The Emperor's New Clothes.
We don't want that.
So whoever you are, you wear clothes, whether you like it or not. Over the past 100 years, fashion has evolved. It's gone from...

To this...

To what we typically have nowadays...

Everyone has different styles - some may prefer a more laid back jeans and a t-shirt look, whilst others like the prom dress and converse kind of style.

My style's quite quirky. I'm the sort of lacy dress plus boots girl, the jeans and a lacey top girl, I don't dress to impress, and my style's different to other people. I don't wear make-up, but out and about you'll see lots of people that do.

Now, let's look at how make-up has evolved.

So that was Victorian. We can see very simple lipstick, and not much else.

Then let's take a look at around 1950ish...

We can now see a more shiny, red lipstick, plus eyeliner and mascara. 

Finally, modern days...

We can see bright lipstick plus gloss, blusher, foundation, mascara, possible falsh eyelashes, eyeliner, eyeshadow and so much more.

So, you see, the world's fashion and make-up has changed drastically. Everyone has a different look, something that defines them as unique, something that makes that person who they are.

Clothes are an expression of who you are. A hint into your mind, your feelings, who you are. A person can be completely guessed by their clothing. People are obviously judged by what they wear on their faces and bodies. Let's take a look at the image below. Who do you percept this person as from what they wear?

We automatically think - black hoodie - dodgy. We don't know anything about this boy. He could be anyone - there could be a perfectly rational reason why he's wearing this hoodie - but clothes and make-up send messages to our brain, like with this boy - trouble. Let's take a look at another picture.

From this picture we see glasses, braces, cheesy smile, white shirt, no make-up and pigtails. We think geek, clever girl with no social life. Am I correct? 

So, you see, perceptions of characters and personalities are judged on all sorts of things, looks particularly. What you wear makes a big impact on what people think of you, like it or not. Nowadays, what people see is what they expect to get. A blonde girl? She's an idiot. A boy with long-ish hair, who sings and hangs out with girls? Automatically Gay. A girl who wears black? Emo who self harms.

The blonde girl could be an A* student at Oxford - it just so happens she has blonde hair.

The boy who's apparently gay could be the next big superstar - maybe girls just understand him more than boys who tease him.

A girl who wears black could be mourning the death of someone she loves most, or maybe black's just her way of expressing herself.

The message I'm trying to get across to you is this; Don't judge a person by their looks.

BEST QUOTES:
"Judging a person does not define WHO THEY ARE,
It defines WHO YOU ARE." 

Courtesy from: ORLI

Top 7 Money Saving Motivations

No one says no to a bulkier bank account, so say a big “hello!” to our list of money saving motivations. In the current economic climate many of us are feeling the pinch, so here are seven handy ways to boost your bank account:

Money saving motivation 1: Create a spreadsheet

Instead of constantly trying to work things out in your head and making rough estimates on how much money you have left for the month, make things a whole lot easier by creating a spreadsheet.  At first glance, these can seem a little daunting but it’s really easy once you get used to it and there are many free spreadsheet websites online which work out all the sums for you. By having your outgoings on a list in front of you, you can identify what you’re saving on and what you perhaps need to cut back on. 
Money saving motivation 2: Avoid shopping when you’re feeling emotional... or hungry

You’re feeling a little down in the dumps but you need a new work shirt... bad idea. Turn around, get back inside the house, lock the doors, and ask someone to hide your keys right now—if you’re feeling emotional there’s a high chance you will end up splurging on stuff you don’t really need to give you a quick happiness boost. After spending five minutes looking for a shirt, you return with a few tins of paint to re-vamp the house, a new wardrobe of clothes, and a mop for the kitchen floor, but the new work shirt is nowhere to be seen.
Whilst these spur-of-the-moment purchases may uplift your mood for an hour or two, the initial high will soon wear off and you’ll be left feeling worse as you realize you’re left with nothing more than a few bargains and an empty bank account. For a thriftier approach to shopping, go when you’re in a pretty good mood and—whatever you do—don’t shop for groceries when you’re hungry.
Money saving motivation tip 3: Surround yourself with exciting hobbies and positive people

Rather than spending money on takeaways and meals out to cheer you up after a long hard day, identify other things you like doing that will boost your mood instead of spending money. Arrange some fun things to do with family and friends around your house or take up a new hobby such as gardening or crafts. We often end up spending more when we’re bored, emotional, and/or lonely so plan a film night with your family or buy a few ingredients from the grocery store and try cooking something you’ve never made before.
Money saving motivation 4: Save little and often
It’s a common mistake to think that you can’t start saving because you don’t have much money, but that’s like saying you won’t go on that one-hour run because you don’t have the whole day off to exercise—it’s counterproductive and unrealistic. Experts advise that the best way to boost your bank balance is by taking the ‘little and often’ approach to saving. Rather than putting a lump sum of your month’s wages into a savings account and leaving very little to live off for the rest of the month, just put a small amount away as often as possible and the money will mount up without you even noticing it. The more you see your bank balance rising, the more you will want to keep adding to it. Go on, try it—it’s addictive.

Money saving motivation tip 5: Put some money aside for pleasure
It’s important to treat yourself occasionally to avoid getting frustrated and spending all your savings at once, so make sure you include a little “happy time” money in your budget to treat yourself every now and again. Do you want a new television for the living room? Save up for one. Fancy a small break somewhere nice? Save up for it. Once you’ve saved up for something and reached your target amount, you’ll feel much better than you would if you spent money that you didn’t really have in the first place.
Money saving motivation 6: Read a finance blog or make your own
Personal finance blogs are becoming an increasingly popular form of inspiration for many people; they can encourage you to save and adopt good financial habits in the process. It’s also really interesting to take a sneaky peak into the lives of other people and see what they enjoy the odd splurge on. If you’re feeling really brave, you could create your own finance blog to share your own tips and advice with others. This will not only help you to network with other people in the same financial mindset as you, but it will encourage you to save more so that you can feel extra proud of yourself when you share how well you’re doing with others.
Money saving motivation 7: Get support
If you’re really feeling the pinch and you need advice, don’t feel ashamed to seek support from others. You may feel like a little fish in a big pond when it comes to finances, so seek advice from a financial expert who will have a lot of experience dealing with problems like yours. Your financial adviser will come up with a realistic plan to help you sort out any money difficulties

 Courtesy from Yahoo Article

How to Become a Millionaire Before 30

So your ambition in life is to be a millionaire before you turn 30! Fabulous.
It’s a great ambition. It is not difficult, but it is not that easy either, as you might very well know. There are many routes that people take to become a millionaire – betting on horses, gambling, investing in real estate, winning a lottery, becoming an entrepreneur. Some rely on luck while some work hard for it. Luck is fleeting, rare, but hard work pays, hundred percent. So, how do you become a millionaire? Here’s how:

Earnings from your job

Obviously you need a steady stream of income to build your million. The more money you earn, the quicker the journey to your milestone will be. But that doesn’t mean you can get there on a Government salary. It has to be substantial.

Know your limits

You have to know your limits. You obviously cannot spend more than you make. That’s a financial suicide. If you can’t afford to buy that Sedan, don’t. Buy a hatch. If you can’t afford to eat at fancy restaurants, start cooking at home. If traveling by your vehicle is expensive, switch to public transport. You don’t have to turn into a pauper, just practice smart living. Quit getting magazines you don’t read; get rid of the internet connection if you don’t use it that often. You use it at work anyway. Switch to prepaid connection if you’re on a postpaid mobile plan. Get rid of that credit card so you never get tempted into buying stuff on an impulse. When you shop, shop in bulk. Quit buying the newest gadgets. Basically, live a lifestyle that you can afford.

Save Money

Just making money won’t suffice. You need a savings plan. Don’t leave it for too late. The longer you save the more money you will end up with. Don’t think of saving after you’ve paid all your bills. Set aside a percentage of your salary every week or every month and put that money into a separate account and refrain from getting an ATM card. That way you will think twice before withdrawing money.

Make good investments

Make sound investment decisions. Listen to news, read the papers, talk to knowledgeable people and seek their advice on investments. You can even seek services of an investment agency. Invest in a diversified portfolio and be consistent. Maybe a systematic investment plan or SIP. You can even look at mutual funds, stocks, shares etc. Make sure you have the ability to take risks because you will win some and you will lose some. Buy land or gold or flats if you have that kind of cash. It will appreciate over a period of time and you can sell it off later to make a good profit.

Start your own business

You can turn into an entrepreneur even, investing your money into growing your business. If the idea is good and you’re a good manager, you will be able to make quite a bit of money. Always keep looking at avenues to increase your income.

Your hobby could make you rich

If you have a hobby like stamp collection or comic books collection (in mint condition), antiques or original paintings, or any collector’s items. They could fetch a great amount if you decide to auction them.

Get married

By marrying a working woman, you not only double your salary but also your savings.
Becoming a millionaire is not easy, or else all of us would be one. It is tough. It needs planning and perseverance. If you’re willing to put in hard work over a period of time, you will be rewarded.

Courtesy from  Yahoo article